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Floridamax
08-12-2009, 12:13 PM
Hey folks, Joined back in april when I bought my 89 VMax. I was stoked and called my "big" brother to chat about bikes. Bill was an avid member of xjbikes.com forum and was becoming the "go to" guy for their bikes. He fully restored his xj 650 to show room and rode it every chance he got. So involved in his passion for motorcycles he had already purchased/rescued his next project bike he was going to restore to ride with his son. Bill was an average guy, safe rider and always their to help. He said' " VMAX, hmmm that is a sweet bike, alot of power too, you'll enjoy it just becareful" The situation is ironic. You see I was pushing 125 mph 12 hours before Bill was putting along at 45 and he had his accident. He knew my love for speed and we had a chat about the risks of riding. Bill said " be confident on where you are going in lfe and in death and all will be good, So get right with GOD Dave and leave the rest to HIM".

The massive support from the biking community, both local riders and from around the world, brings me back to vmaxforum.net with a new respect and desire to be apart of the community.

What happened? The story is tragic with some surreal twist. He was driving to work , less than a mile from home. A driver was turning into the drive a a close family friend of Bill. She said she didn't see him. Well I reviewed the accident site and the sun is shining right down the road making visibility hard, but she was also distracted by the fact she had missed the drive two other times. She was their to pick up Bills family friends children for school. One of the girls witnessed the event and the driver had a 12 year old in the rear passenger seat (the impact site).

I give the back ground to show that not all accidents are due to major malfunctions. Some are cumulative and result in horrific endings. My brother is gone, his children and wife are devasted, Bills friends are struggling with the (what ifs) and their daughter stands at the end of their driveway for hours, the driver is a basket case and her child won't leave the house. The impact is wide and deep in these events.

I fear that with the increase in mobile technologies that we will see more of these evnets crossing the spectrum of 4 & 2 wheelers.

Thanks for letting me vent. I have several rides that I wanted to take with Bill here in Fl if any want to join give me a shout. Bill also had put together a ride in NC with his fellow XJers that was scheduled for the day we had his memorial. I have requested they complete the ride and I again extend an invite to my new riding comunity of vmaxforum to join us.

Bills Obituary

William “Bill” Schmitt, 52, passed away Tuesday, August 4, 2009 at Wake Medical Center. He was born in Trenton, New Jersey, the son of Loretta Bendel Schmitt and George Schmitt. Mr. Schmitt had been employed for thirty years with IBM as a software engineer manager. He was a member of Wakeminster Baptist church where he served as a Sunday school teacher and as a deacon; he was a ham radio operator and enjoyed fishing and riding motorcycles. A memorial service will be held at 2 o’clock Saturday afternoon, August 8, 2009 at Wakeminster Baptist Church with Rev. Merle Martin and Rev. Ed Hall officiating. Friends may visit with the family following the service in the church fellowship hall, all other time at the Schmitt home, Raleigh. Mr. Schmitt is survived by his wife of 24 years, Sandra Deal Schmitt; children, Beth Schmitt and Steven Schmitt; parents, George and Loretta Schmitt of Inverness, FL; brothers, Rick Schmitt and wife, Marie of Charlotte, David Schmitt and wife, Marcene of Crystal River, FL. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the Wakeminster Baptist Church Building Fund, 13221 Old Creedmoor Rd, Raleigh, NC 27613.

gamorg02
08-12-2009, 12:31 PM
so sorry to hear of your loss.....

Thevmaxrider
08-12-2009, 12:37 PM
My condolences on your loss.

4gasem
08-12-2009, 12:41 PM
WOW... So sorry to hear this... He sounds like a great brother. Morn his passing but honor his life!

Make sure the kids get some counseling too. I feel for them.

Chris

dannymax
08-12-2009, 12:43 PM
Very sad Florida....hopefully, with the passage of time, everyone will heal.

danny

one2dmax
08-12-2009, 01:03 PM
Sad story, sorry to hear about it. I have some dealings on occassion with the XJBikes site and may have even exchanged a post or two with your brother.

Sean

naughtyG
08-12-2009, 01:42 PM
Condolences my friend.. It is indeed a really sad story, and I hope you, your family, your friends and those people so unfortunately involved in this tragedy can find a way to move on to happier times in the not too distant future.

kaboom
08-12-2009, 01:47 PM
Sorry for your loss....

Hope all others involved heal quickly.....

I also am glad to see that you will keep riding

Redbone
08-12-2009, 01:59 PM
Very sorry to hear of your loss for you and your family.
Welcome to our Vmax brotherhood, let us know if you need anything.

Bill Kratzenberg
08-12-2009, 01:59 PM
Very sad indeed, my condolences to you and your family...

eatatjoz
08-12-2009, 04:33 PM
Like Sean, I may have been in a conversation or two with him at xjbikes.
Sorry for your loss, but maybe he'll run into my little brother up there. he should know where all of the good roads are by now.

2stangs69-91
08-12-2009, 04:58 PM
Sorry for your loss. There are really no words. I hope everybody can start to heal soon. It sounds like your brother would want that to happen, and for them to be strong knowing he is in a better place now.

MikeTD3
08-12-2009, 06:16 PM
My sincere condolences.

texmax
08-12-2009, 08:16 PM
Prayers sent to you & the family.

ghostntheshell
08-12-2009, 08:18 PM
Sorry to hear about your loss.

zippo6
08-12-2009, 08:23 PM
So sorry for your loss.

Shane

tfisher65
08-12-2009, 09:14 PM
My sincere condolences to you and your family. I'm sure he's in a better place doing what he loved, riding.

COP RUNNER
08-12-2009, 09:26 PM
i knew this was going to be a tuff read so i had to wait till my son went to bed . All of those circumstances leading up to this are unbelievable & the poor kids , nothing anyone can say will ease the pain , even with time you will never forget , i do not believe the time heals all wounds . Just remember that some day all of you will be together again ! I can't even believe i'm sitting here crying writing this . This is one of my biggest fears , someone having to tell my 6 year old that daddy's not coming home . Its unfathomable . At least he was doing what he loved to do ! I used to have no fear when i rode , but since my son was born , now i'm scared ( not of the bike ) every time i get on it , i hope that one day when your all together again , that we will all be there to , so we can all meet face to face ! I'll say a prayer for your brother and you & your entire family ! STAY STRONG , SO HE'S SAY'S HE'S PROUD OF YOU WHEN YOU MEET AGAIN !

Firewrench
08-12-2009, 09:48 PM
My condolences on your tragic loss.
Peace be with you.

vmaxride06
08-12-2009, 09:50 PM
Sorry for your loss bro. You will be riding again together one day.
My prayers go out to you and your family.

Transam
08-13-2009, 08:57 PM
Thats rough, Hang in there brother if you need anything
let us know and Godspeed .
Regards,
Chris

Bill Seward
08-14-2009, 04:34 PM
You and your family have my condolences on your loss. There is no way to make anything positive about this tragedy, except to accept (hard as it may be) that God had a better purpose for him "up there".

Time is key here..... After some time passes, the stunning grief will pass, and after more time passes, the pain will lessen for all of you. There will come a time when his loss is not the only thing you keep going back to, and after even more time passes - you will finally have a day when you don't think of him.

That's NOT meant in a disrespectful way, or to minimize your familys loss! It's just that your soul has healed, and your brother has given way to what is important now - Your Life!

I remember back in October 1990, I found my Dad lying in bed, dead. A good lifelong friend - I can unashamedly say I love this guy - gave me that advice about time. It helped for me, and I hope you can find some comfort in it.

This forum may seem a bit rowdy, and even (dare I say it) uncouth at times, BUT you'll never find a finer group of people willing to help a friend in a time of need. I think I can speak for everyone here, let us know what you need.
Prayers have already been said - I know this, because I said 'em! I'm not the only one....

Peace.

Floridamax
08-14-2009, 10:59 PM
I must say you folks have been great. I truly hold ALL your comments dear. Yeh it sucks, to say the least. I have found comfort in this and Bill's XJBikers forums. The folks at xj are reforming the ride that Bill had put together in NC that was scheduled to take place on of all days the day we had his memorial service. they are working hard to reschedule for a day I can travel up to join them and I look forward to meeting and riding with his buds. I would like to extend an invitation to vmaxers in the Raleigh area to join if you wish. I'll post the link shortly to any who want the info. If you can't join us perhaps take a ride in honor of Bill and all of our fellow riders who have met the same end on that day. As I process the feelings I come to an unconfortable reality that I am not the only one who has loved ones who have met the same demise. I plan to ride that day and every day not just in honor of Bill but for ALL. I beleive everytime we fire up our bikes and roll down the road we honor the passion we all share. Riding is a passion, one with risk. It is hard for many to understand our love of riding and I don't expect to convert them. So I came to people who understand and share the passion, risk and the reward of riding. Thanks again your support is needed and appreciated.

Dave