I agree with Jim.
You get out of the VMOA what you put into it.
The thing I noticed from hanging out with a couple of other Riding groups is this.
A majority of VMax owners are of the older generation. They have a lot of other responsibilities to attend to in life. Unlike the younger sport crowd they are less likely to jump on their VMaxes and go riding for the day without a couple of weeks notice. Quite simply, work, wives, children and other hobbies get in the way. And unlike a lot of Harley riders their hobbies aren't solely motorcycle related.
I also noticed there isn't as many VMaxes per square mile as there are Harleys and Rockets. So if your trying to get VMaxers together, it takes more coordination and travel time.
But for those few that make gathering with fellow VMax owners a higher priority, they allot more time to gather with said fellow Vmaxers. Therefore they meet more often.
Most of the guys in the VMOA are good people. But sadly they only have time to make the big annual events.
I personally would love a monthly or Bi-weekly or even weekly get together of fellow VMaxers. But here in Florida we are pretty spread out and except for two or three, it's an hour or more ride to meet.
I've found that the sport bike crowd are a bit young for me and are more into stunting and radical riding for my taste. And the Harley crowd is more into drinking While riding than I am.
So I settle for the annual VMOA events and go riding on my own most of the time.
And from time to time the VMOA membership has it's benefits. Besides meeting some great people and getting discounts here and there. They throw in a lil surprise, like a 2009 VMax DVD in the VBoost.
The VMOA is what it is. Love it or leave it, it's your choice!
I happen to like it myself, but I'm always partial to groups that have a similar interest as I do.