I agree totally - everyone's different.
My max came with a Corbin that had been lowered as much as poss for a short arse PO. It felt just fine when I sat on it, but after an hour or so it was painful.
I've replaced it with another Corbin, this one shaped by Sean (Muscle Corbin). It's much better to start with, really feels comfortable when I get on it and for the first 60+ miles, but after that it still starts hurting. It's better than before, and I feel like I sit 'in' the bike more with this one which improves posture and handling, but I guess my arse is just funny-shaped or too bony, cos after that 1st hour in the saddle I still get these pressure points that hurt and only keep getting worse.
I'm gonna try an Air Hawk pad if I can find a decent deal on one - $135 seems a bit excessive for an air cushion, but when I go on a long trip it's going to be well needed.