What's the saying ? " Easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission"
I'm on the sepperate accounts lifestyle as well. I can say I don't need permission to buy toys that I want but it can certainly be thrown back at me in future scuffles and arguments.I used to subscribe to the permission/forgiveness thing when I was younger. At this point I buy what I want and I decide for myself what I can afford. I do not accept spousal input regarding financial issues or vehicle purchases. We come together half/half on household expenses, otherwise there is no commingling of assets, including vehicles. No permission, no apologies, no forgiveness needed or expected. I cant see any other way for a grown man to live.
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