I really don't like the sissy bar black or chrome, in fact I wouldn't have the damm thing at all. I know your wife would feel better with it on. I told my wife if she wants one of those bars she'd be better off riding her own bike because its not going on mine....I was just joking, but she took be seriously and said if she holds on too tight its not her fault. Sure honey no problem. If I was to put one on, I would mod it to half the height and go with chrome/polished. ( with your bike ) I think black goes better.
Actually I took another look, either or would look good.